Posted in He Said. She Said., Jack, Jill, Other on 07/14/2009 11:55 am by Jack and Jill
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I’ve got to be the breadwinner. ‘She’ shouldn’t have to work so hard. If I were a better provider she could do something she really loves. If I’d work a little harder we could do all the things we’d ever dreamed. I should bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan. And I really wish I could. Cuz, we love bacon.
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She Said
Sure. I’ll admit it. I have an instinct that says ‘I want to be taken care of by my man while I tend to the home and family.’ It’s not a dominant instinct but it is there and I am not sure where it exactly comes from. Is it my personality, upbringing, society or maybe it was handed down by the hunters and gathers living in caves eating dinosaurs? Tastes like chicken.
I will say it is natural for me to be motherly and be a care giver to people I love. It is an overwhelming feeling I have to make Jack and Spot comfortable and happy. When work gets to be too busy and Jack ends up picking up most of the slack, I miss it in a way and wish I was doing it. Yes, I said it. It’s in writing. Jack will never let me forget it. Curse you blog and your questions!!
With all that said, this motherly instinct is about wanting to be the boss and having things just how I want them. Am I right? Or am I right?
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Posted in He Said. She Said., Jack, Jill, Other on 12/16/2008 10:19 am by Jack and Jill
| He Said
If it’s my wife, 14 weeks. If it’s a mistress, as long I can keep it under wraps while I figure a way to make certain that it’s mine because she’s pulled this shit on me before.
- Jack |
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She Said
12 weeks is standard, but I would tell someone very close to me right away. I would want my close someone there to help me through if something were to happen, just like they are there for everything else.
Mind you this person has to have a proven track record of keeping secrets and could emotionally handle whatever you throw at them.
And Family, I know what you are thinking and no we are not. I’ll have plenty of wine on our next visit just to prove to you, but only for that reason and absolutely no other.
-Jill |
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Posted in He Said. She Said., Jack, Jill on 12/09/2008 10:32 pm by Jack and Jill
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He Said
Well as I recall, and I’m certainly not known for my recollection, we were in ‘hers’ apartment, late.
Her sister (my roommate) and her boyfriend were out of town for the weekend. The four of us at that time were pretty much inseparable, so for the first time we were left alone to our own devices. Uh oh.
The details of this have always been in debate as ’she’ and I were sitting on the floor facing each other and yet when we discuss it…
"I was facing the dresser." "No, I was facing the dresser."
Well we were both sitting on the floor with the bed, the dresser and the desk around us. Fact.
I was smitten. Fact.
After loads and loads of talking ’she’ initiated the kiss. Fact.
I was facing the dresser. eh *shrug*? I got the girl. Fact.
- Jack
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She Said
I remember it vividly. We were on the floor of my apartment in St. Paul, MN.
I was facing the dresser.
Jack was facing the desk.
-Jill
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