Comments on: He Said. She Said. – What female/male instincts, societal and/or natural, pressures do you feel in your relationship?

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By: Not So Glamorous Housewife

Not So Glamorous Housewife — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 10:43:19 +0000

I think we have been dealing with this exact issue for too long. Do we live in our home town where we both must work to get by, or do we raise our children in a big city and give them a stay at home mom? Who knows.

By: Jack and Jill

Jack and Jill — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 06:00:23 +0000

Thanks for all the great comments! This was great:)!

By: No. 17 CherryTree Lane

No. 17 CherryTree Lane — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 04:20:29 +0000

So glad I found your blog! It is really interesting reading everyone’s thoughts and opinion!

By: Scherlock

Scherlock — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 04:08:48 +0000

I think all the comments above make some very good points. Things and times have a way of changing. But one thing never changes, women have alot more to say about the subject. (smile)

By: aussiechic

aussiechic — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 01:47:21 +0000

I love staying at home and taking care of our vegemite – however, sometimes I feel like I should be contributing, only because I think, that I have always worked and taken care of myself, and now suddenly I am married and have a baby and I am at home and living off someone else and that has been very hard to get used to……BUT nothing is compared to taking care of vegemite……AND I am kinda relishing being a housewife (dare I say it)…for my hubby….heheheheheheheeeeeee

By: Eric Hegwer

Eric Hegwer — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 01:17:59 +0000

#1 – love the blog format.
second – I think it’s most important to do what you love – If one is a better bread winner today, there’s a reason – things may change tomorrow
Last – the comment above, makes a great point.

By: Christina

Christina — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 20:36:43 +0000

I think you are right about the connection of motherly and being the boss! Having motherly instincts are not about being submissive or taken care of, they are about the nurturing of something. It may be a child, relationship or a business. Anything you nurture, means of course that you have an intended direction for it to go(as it should) . Being taken care of is the desire to feel safe.
I think in this day and age we require balance of mothering/parenting and being taken care of. There is no one or the other anymore. I think people that do nothing and are taken care of are frowned upon (granted…most likely jealous of to a point)Society has taught us that we all want to be somebody…that somebody is proud of bottom line…I think you need both to exist! Most people that have a ton of money and no work to get there…lose it! Monetarily and mentally. Not sure if any of this applies…but you got me thinking! FYI: Bacon Rocks!